Sometimes I wonder the impact my crafting lifestyle will have on my young sons, who are now 7 and 10. During the fall and spring, I am gone 3 out of 4 weekends at shows, off solo selling my wares while my kiddos are in school. My husband takes them to all their soccer games on the weekends, and I miss these special moments….although I usually get lots of photos of them playing sent to my Blackberry—Love modern technology!
During the week, I feel like I’m cramming time with my boys…trying to see them as much as possible. But there’s only so much time between after school, homework, soccer practice, and bedtime; and often I have lots of work to do to get ready for the next weekend show as well so I’ll be in the studio late at night.
My older son Garrett told his Nene (my mom) that when he grows up, he’s going to get a job that makes lots of money so he doesn’t have to work as hard as his father and me. Then my mother shot me that look that said: “Are you sure you know what you’re doing?” (and really, she totally disapproves of me being gone so much!)
But two weekends ago my son Garrett got to come with me to a show because it was close to home in Georgetown. He loved it! He wandered around, found some arts and crafts he liked and even made a “trade” with an artist (with a little help from mom). He was so proud of his purchase…and liked the idea that he got to own something made by another artist by trading something his mommy made. And he got to hear folks say how much they loved the glass that his mommy made…I think it made him feel special.
Another benefit of my kids witnessing my crafts lifestyle is that it is teaching them that there are all kinds of ways to make a living in this world besides the standard corporate style job. It’s teaching them that you can conceive of something in your own mind, create it, and actually convince other people to buy it from you! How cool is that? Last year I knew Garrett had figured this out when he filled balloons with flour and sold them at school as “stress balls” for $5 each. He made a BUNDLE! I am teaching him to be an entrepreneur.
I’m also teaching my kids that doing what you love is important. I am not happy with corporate work. Sure…it pays the bills. But if I don’t have a way to be creative as a living, I am miserable. Even though I’m gone so much from home, when I *am* home, I’m happy. I think that makes a difference. An energetic happy mommy who’s around half the time is much better than a depressed sad mommy who’s around all the time.
And, lastly, I’m teaching my kids the power of determination. You win some, you lose some, but you never stop trying to live your dreams. Ever. I am trying to set an example for them that I hope will help them create a full, happy life.
It will be fascinating to see how my kids turn out…what lessons they learn…and what they say about me as a mom when they grow up!